The first time ever you have sex, it can be very nerve-racking. You may be worried about what to do if you don’t know what to do, or what to do if you make a mistake, and you may have a lot of worries. If you know beforehand what to be careful about, it will be easier for you to practice and plan ahead. For example, many men get tripped up by how to do foreplay, put on a condom, and the insertion procedure.
Also, most first-time men ejaculate fairly quickly, so the sex is often over before the woman starts to feel it. If you’re going to spend a night with a girl, you want to make her feel as good as possible. Therefore, if you work on your penis beforehand to improve your premature ejaculation, you’ll be able to have more satisfying sex for the first time. In this article, you will find some goodies to help you practice and train for sex.
Why does sex need practice too?
Sex also requires practice. No one enters a sporting event or music competition without practicing for the show. You always practice many times beforehand to make sure you’re prepared to come to the show in perfect condition. If you don’t practice, you won’t be able to perform fully and get the results you want. The same practice (Sex Practice) is necessary for sex as well. This is because people who are new to sex often stumble on the following four points.
- Can’t get my penis inside.
- Don’t know how to do foreplay.
- Can’t wear a condom.
- Ejaculates immediately after insertion
All of these things can be very worrying for men. How to foreplay a woman, how to insert a woman, where to insert her vagina, etc., are all things that a first-time man does not know. Also, if you wilt before you can put a condom on properly, or if you ejaculate too soon after trying to insert it, the sex experience will be less satisfying. Let’s delve into the four stumbling blocks above to help you have a successful first experience and move on to the next.
Panic because of not knowing how to insert it properly
Men who are new to sex don’t know where to insert their penis anyway. They may know it should be in the woman’s vagina, but they may not know which hole to put it in. A common mistake is to try to put it in the girl’s anus. If you make a mistake here, it can give a girl a weird image and destroy the atmosphere.
Nevertheless, identifying the insertion site itself is easy. The girl’s crotch is attached to a clam-like object, the so-called cunt. In short, the vagina is where the male penis and testicles are going to be inserted. The vagina has large lips called labia, which when opened, expose the inside of the vagina. If you have done a lot of foreplay beforehand, the vagina should be moist and wet. The penis will be inserted there.
If you go from there to her back, you will find the anus in about the same position as the man, so be careful not to put your penis in there by mistake. You may have to turn off the lights during sex, but first-time men have a hard time seeing the vagina area, so you may have trouble getting your penis to go toward the vagina. If possible, turn the lights on a little brighter and make sure you know exactly where you’re going to insert yourself before you do.
Masturbation allows you to stimulate yourself with your own hands, but sex is completely different because it is inserted into your partner’s vagina. If you’re unsure of where it is, your erection can fade away while you’re looking for the exact spot. This may cause you to become even more impatient and make it difficult to get an erection again. If you get a good idea of what a vagina looks like before you start, you will be able to insert yourself smoothly without problems.
Confused about what to do with foreplay
It can be confusing to know how to do foreplay, which can lead to stilted sex. In fact, it is the quality of foreplay, rather than penetration, that decisively determines a woman’s pleasure during sex. If the foreplay is well done, you can get by with poor penetration technique, but if you don’t have good foreplay, even penetration can be difficult. It’s not just a matter of licking and teasing your cunt.
The beginning of sex starts with foreplay, but the important thing to remember is that it is rushed. Foreplay begins to swing a little further away from you, not where you are most likely to feel it. Foreplay usually starts with your breasts, but start by gently rubbing your breasts rather than licking your nipples. Do not massage the shoulders at this point. Start with feather touch to get used to it and gradually rub the underbusts (lower part of the breasts). Then touch your nipples and nipples and lick them in moderation.
In fact, it has been found that carefully stimulating your boobs with foreplay also activates the vagina’s sexual zones. This means that titty foreplay can also lead to post-insertion pleasure. Once the boobs are done, the next step is to caress the vagina. The area of a woman’s vagina that is most likely to be felt is the clitoris (clitoris). The clitoris is a small bean-like protrusion at the top of the labial cleft (on the belly side). It is most important to stimulate this area, but the key is to make it a little more urgent.
Use a finger to trace around the labia and gently touch the area around the crack to get used to it. Clitoral stimulation is then the next step. There are many different ways to caress the clitoris, but if you are a beginner, a gentle touch with a finger is enough. There is no need to force licking and cunnilingus.
If the woman is feeling well, her vagina should be wet and her clitoris should be erect and hard. If you have come this far, you are ready for penetration. If you want to learn more about caressing to make a woman feel good, check out the following articles
Penis falls flacid while wearing a condom
Putting on a condom is another area where first-time men can get very stumbled upon. Not only beginners, but even those who are somewhat familiar with sex can make mistakes with condoms. The reason why condoms are so difficult to put on is because condoms have two sides, and you can’t put them on if they are on opposite sides. Also, since the room is often darkened during sex, it can take a long time to put it on, and in time, your penis will wilt.
Make sure that the condom stays in place while you’re having sex. If it comes off, stop and put on a new one.
Be careful not to make the mistake of using the wrong side of the back, as it’s often done. Condoms come in a package that wraps around a ring, so if you try to put them on backwards, you won’t be able to get them down to the root if you try to put them on in the opposite direction.
The condoms are labeled “male side” or “back side” on the package, so make sure you point it toward your belly. If you keep the condom in that direction, place the condom against the glans and lower the ring down to the root, you will be able to put the condom on nicely.
If the room is dark, it’s hard to see the orientation, so use a light to check it, even if it’s just a little bit. All that’s left is to lower it down to the root while holding it against the glans, but it can be difficult to do if you’re not used to it.
If it takes time and effort in the real thing, your penis will be deflated from tension and impatience, and you may not be able to make it erect again easily. For this reason, it is recommended that you practice putting on a condom during your regular masturbation routine, and that you practice beforehand.
Also, if you put on a condom that is on the wrong side of the condom, do not turn it over and reapply it. Be sure to replace it with a new one. In fact, sperm are released before ejaculation, mixed with gum juice and other substances. Therefore, once you reapply a condom with a penis on it, sperm can get into the vagina. You can’t wash it and reuse it, which may seem like a waste of money, but try again with a new condom.
Ejaculate too early
Men who are experiencing sex for the first time tend to ejaculate soon after insertion. This is because their penises are not used to vaginal stimulation at all. Even if you masturbate on a regular basis, the stimulation is completely different between masturbation and sex.
If you ejaculate early in the real sex, you’ll probably end up having sex before your partner is able to get any pleasure out of it. That shouldn’t make your partner blame you for it, but you’ll feel very sorry for him or her, and you’ll feel very disappointed.
Even if it’s your first time having sex, you want to be able to insert yourself for at least 3-5 minutes. However, if you’re impatient or nervous, it’s even easier to ejaculate prematurely, so you should insert yourself with a calm and relaxed mind.
To do this, it’s important to train your penis on a regular basis to get it used to the stimulation and to build up its confidence. In other words, you need sex training (Sex Training) just as much as you need muscle training. The best way to improve premature ejaculation is to use the masturbator.
The masturbator is a sex toy that can be inserted into a woman’s vagina to enjoy the stimulation. When you masturbate with it, you get the same pleasure as if you were inserting it into a real woman. In other words, masturbating with a masturbator is a great way to practice sex.
By getting your penis used to the stimulation, you can extend the time it takes to penetrate in the real world. In fact, masturbation has also been proven to be effective in improving premature ejaculation. Because it’s your first time, make sure you practice and train well in advance before you have real sex.
To learn more about improving premature ejaculation, read the following articles
Here’s a sex toy to help you train for sex!
The first experience of sex comes with a lot of worries and concerns. Because it’s your first time, you want to make it successful and create good memories. However, you can’t actually practice with sex, and preparing for sex is not easy with regular masturbation. The key to this is to utilize sex toys to enhance the pleasure of sex and masturbation, and to masturbate on a regular basis. Sex toys that are useful for sex practice and training (Sex Training) are the following six things.
- love doll
- Cock ring
- Penile extender
The masturbator is the irony of the male sex toy. It’s a great way to train because you can recreate the stimulation similar to inserting yourself into a woman’s vagina with a sex toy. The love doll is a further development and is truly a sex simulator.
Cock rings are effective in sustaining an erection. Using lotion to get your penis used to stimulation and practicing condom wearing is also an effective way to practice sex. You can also try penile extender for penis enlargement.
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A masturbator is a sex toy that mimics a woman’s vagina. It is designed to be used by inserting a penis into a vagina, so you can get a pleasant sensation as if you were inserting it into a real vagina. In other words, you can experience the stimulation similar to the real sex in masturbation.
Of course, it is different from holding a real woman’s body, but at least in terms of insertion into the vagina, it is a very realistic product. This masturbator is a great way to practice and train for sex.
One thing that surprises men when they first experience it is the difference in stimulation between regular masturbation and sex. While masturbation is a hand job using your own hands, vaginal penetration provides a unique feeling of pressure and closeness.
While masturbation tends to be a simple stimulation, vaginal penetration offers all sorts of unexpected and new stimulation. For this reason, first time men are very surprised. They may be overly excited by a stimulus they have never felt before and may ejaculate in a flash.
Using a masturbator on a regular basis will help a woman get used to vaginal stimulation in advance. It’s a practice in advance of sex, so to speak. This is especially effective for men with premature ejaculation. By getting your penis used to the stimulation of the masturbator, you will be able to extend your penetration time in the actual game.
It will be easier to satisfy a girl on her first time. However, you need to know more about masturbators because it’s important to know how to choose and use them. Learn more about the appeal of masturbators that many men are addicted to in the following article.
How can I make my masturbator useful?
The choice of masturbator is important anyway. Beginner men should choose one that is lower in stimulation. In other words, it should be relatively loose in its tightness and simple in its internal structure. If you choose a strong stimulus from the start, you will probably ejaculate soon after insertion, so you won’t get much benefit from your training.
If you’re about to have your first experience, it’s safe to choose the STU (Stamina Training Unit) from the American masturbator Fleshlight. This is designed to train your stamina, i.e. to extend your insertion time.
The countless warts placed inside are exciting and stimulating, but they are a perfect balance of stimulation, but not too tight. You can use it for a long time after you graduate from sex and masturbation beginners. However, be sure to clean and dry the masturbator as it can become a breeding ground for germs if left untreated after use.
The structure of Fleshlight is ingenious, and maintenance is relatively easy. However, if you don’t want to deal with this kind of maintenance, you can use a condom with a masturbator. I will explain about condoms later.
If you feel the stimulation is too weak with this kind of masturbation, there is a possibility that the stimulation of normal masturbation is too strong. If you continue to use such masturbator, there is a high possibility of late ejaculation or vaginal ejaculation disorder, which is much more troublesome than premature ejaculation, so be careful.
The insertion time will be too long and may cause pain to the woman. Switch to masturbation in the masturbator immediately to get your penis used to normal stimulation. A masturbator is a great solution to a variety of sexual function problems and anxiety for men who are going through their first time.
2. Love Doll
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Masturbators are a great way to simulate the pleasure of inserting yourself into a woman for sex. However, the masturbator reproduces only the vaginal area. There is no other part of the body or waist, and you only have to move the tube-shaped goods by hand.
Therefore, it is impossible to recreate the excitement of sex itself. That’s why we recommend the Love Doll, the ultimate sex toy that reproduces the entirety of a woman’s body.
The Love Doll is notable for its realism and presence. It uses special materials such as silicone and estramer to recreate the texture of a woman’s skin and even the feeling of touch. The joints are well made, so you can make her strike naughty poses and control her body position as you wish. Of course, there’s a masturbator in the crotch, so you can have sex with the love doll.
Unlike masturbators, the body itself is replicated, so love dolls can help you practice sex. One of the things that will surprise you the first time is the feel of holding a live woman’s body in your arms. This makes you so excited that you ejaculate soon after insertion.
It’s no longer just a sex toy, it’s a sex simulator. The downside is the price, which can be quite difficult to obtain, as a minimum of 100,000 yen ($1,000) for the minimum features and quality.
How to make a love doll useful?
Love dolls are useful for simulating sex, especially for practicing positions. The point is that the pleasure of sex can vary greatly depending on the positions you choose to take. The main positions for sex include normal, Doggy Style, cowgirl, side and sitting, but the positions to take are completely different from each other. It’s unlikely that you’ll change positions significantly the first time you have sex, but you should at least know about normal, hinterland, and cowgirl positions.
One of the most common problems for people who are not very familiar with sex is how to position themselves when changing positions. If you take the time to change positions, it is better to have a smooth transition, if possible, because the excitement can wane for both of you.
Also, the position of the vagina changes depending on the position, so you may be in a hurry to insert your penis. Moreover, the stimulation and pressure on the penis varies greatly depending on the position, so you may be surprised when you first try the position.
For example, it is quite common for a woman to come as soon as she changes to a cowgirl position …… while it lasts relatively long in the normal position. If you utilize a sex doll and practice the positions, the general vaginal position, and how to move your body beforehand, you will be able to set up the position without delay during the actual sex. In addition, if you get used to masturbating on a regular basis, you’ll be able to extend your insertion time and attract your partner.
However, sex dolls are very expensive. If it is difficult to buy a sex doll, we recommend “large masturbators” or “stationary masturbators” that only replicate the woman’s waist area. They may not be the same as sex dolls, but at least you can enjoy a significantly more realistic feeling than a regular masturbator. They can be fixed to a bed or desk so you can practice swiveling your hips and controlling your ejaculation. Be sure to simulate sex with a sex doll or stationary masturbator.
3. Cock ring
Cock rings are another good product for practicing sex. A cock ring is a ring that is attached to the penis. The basic cock ring is very simple in shape, so it may seem like a simple item. However, cock rings can actually be used for a variety of purposes, as they can increase your erection and staying power.
They are especially useful for training men who are going to have their first experience, which is probably the most important thing that men are most concerned about: extending their insertion time.
Cock rings are mainly made of a soft material like silicone or rubber. When it is attached to the root of the normal penis and then erected, the penis gets tighter and tighter. As a result, a large amount of blood, which is essential for an erection, is prevented from leaving the penis, thus increasing its erection strength. Moreover, the amount of blood flowing to the penis during the erection stage is also increased than usual, so the penis becomes more puffy and erect and slightly larger in size.
In addition, wearing a cock ring will slow down the blood flow to the penis, making the sexual area a little more desensitized. As a result, it can also prolong the time to ejaculation. In other words, if you practice wearing a cock ring during your regular masturbation, you’ll learn to imagine having sex with your partner for a longer insertion time.
Of course, if you’re not too worried about your partner’s reaction, you can wear a cock ring for real sex as well. If you want to learn more about the benefits of using cock rings, check out the following articles!
How to make the cock ring useful?
Cock rings can be used to effectively train you to increase the length of sex penetration. The method itself is not so different from normal masturbation. All you have to do is attach a cock ring to your penis in normal conditions, then get it erect and start masturbating.
Just make sure you control your ejaculation and stretch out the time to achieve an orgasm. It should be easier to control your ejaculation than usual because the cock ring increases the duration and also makes your sensitivity a little more insensitive.
You can also combine the cock ring with other sex toys to enhance your training. A good product that works particularly well with cock rings is the masturbator. It may be a surprising combination, but cock rings can dramatically increase the effectiveness of masturbation training. The method is almost the same as normal masturbation.
It is only necessary to put on the cock ring first, to make it erect, and to insert it into the masturbator. You should still train yourself to control your ejaculation well and extend the duration of your masturbation.
The masturbator should basically be a little loose in its tightness, but in some cases, that may not be enough to stimulate you. If this is the case, try wrapping a couple of cock rings around your masturbator instead of your penis.
This will make your masturbation tighter and can greatly enhance your pleasure. If you’re aware of controlling your ejaculation as you normally would, you can train your vagina to extend the duration of your tight vagina, even if it’s tight.
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Lotion is a sex toy that is used to increase lubrication. It’s not an exaggeration to say that they are essential for practicing and training for sex, so make sure you have them on hand. There are three main types of lotions based on their main ingredients.
There are three main types of lotion: water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based. The main ingredients of each type are water, oil, and silicone, and their properties are completely different.
Water-based products are the most basic type and are cheap and easy to find everywhere. The advantage of water base is that it has no drawbacks and its high viscosity and slippery texture makes it easy to enhance the pleasure.
However, the main ingredient is water, so it is easy to evaporate and you need to refill it frequently. The silicone base is smooth and silky, and it lasts for a long time. However, they are more expensive and harder to find than water-based lotions, and they are also harder to wash off after use.
The last oil-based lotion is generally not recommended. Like the silicone base, they have a longer duration and feel relatively smooth. However, the oil base is quite difficult to wash off with water, and it’s also prone to bacteria (germs) growth, so you want to avoid using it for sex toys such as masturbators.
It is also not suitable for use in sex because it can damage latex condoms and is not suitable for practice for the real thing. For more information on how to masturbate with lotion, please read the following articles!
How can I make the lotion useful?
There are several different types of lotions available, but for the purpose of training a man who is about to have sex for the first time, the water-based ones are basically the best choice. This is because they are inexpensive and easy to use at any time, and since they are water-based, they are relatively easy to wash off after use.
Now, how to use this lotion for masturbation is to use it mainly on the glans. You apply the lotion to the glans and do “glans masturbation” to get it used to the stimulation of sex. The most sensitive part of the penis is the glans, which is the most sensitive part of the penis. To begin with, premature ejaculation is caused by the fact that this glans is too sensitive and ejaculates immediately after insertion.
Therefore, if you actively stimulate the glans in your regular masturbation, you will be able to tolerate some of the stimulation in the real thing. In order to do glans masturbation, first make your penis erect and then apply lotion to the entire glans. If you apply too much lotion, it’s useless because it drips, so it’s okay to apply just enough to make the whole thing slippery.
Then use your thumb, index and middle fingers mainly to stimulate the glans by stroking and gently rubbing it around and around. Normally doing this kind of thing hurts from the friction, but as long as you’re covered in lotion, you can do whatever you want. However, if your glans isn’t used to it, you’ll ejaculate quickly, so try to control it as much as possible and prolong the time. At this point, don’t make a last-minute skimpy stop at the last minute.
Stopping just short of ejaculation will put undue strain on your genitals, and stopping just before ejaculation won’t work. The trick is to stop when you feel like you are about to come, and to relax your hand a little bit. Lotion is also a must when using the aforementioned masturbators and sex dolls. You can use them in various situations during the sex show, so be sure to have lotion available and get used to using it.
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One of the easiest things for a man who is about to have sex for the first time to fail is putting on a condom. If you stumble here, you may not even be able to insert it, so be sure to practice putting it on. To begin with, a condom is a contraceptive and is used to avoid an unwanted pregnancy. In addition, it guards the contact between your penis and vagina and prevents sexually transmitted diseases. Therefore, it is the duty of a man to wear a condom when having sex with a woman.
As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, many first-time men make mistakes with condoms. Because they put it on the wrong side of the condom, they can’t put it on properly, and as they try it on again, they become more nervous and impatient, and it fades away. As a matter of fact, once the penis atrophies during sex, it is difficult to get it to re-erect, even for young men.
When that happens, you won’t be able to insert it, so you want to avoid condom mistakes. Fortunately, it’s easy to practice using condoms. If you’re curious about common condom mistakes, check out the following articles!
How to make condoms useful?
Before you have sex with a girl for the first time, be sure to practice how to put on a condom. The procedure is the same as I mentioned earlier: check the direction before you open the condom package and place it on the glans in the correct orientation.
Then lower the ring part down to the root and put it over the entire penis. It’s a very simple process once you get used to it. With practice, you will be able to do it. You can also reuse the rubber that is on the wrong side of the ring when you masturbate, as it is not a real thing to do.
Make sure that the condom-wearing motion is drilled into your body by repeating it over and over again, just like batting in a baseball game. If you practice it well on a regular basis, you’ll be able to do it smoothly, even when the tensions are high during sex with a partner.
Once you’ve done that, the next step is to practice penetration. This is because it is very common for first-time men to ejaculate the moment you put a condom on and insert it into her vagina.
Basically, the condom puts pressure on the glans. If you try to insert it into the vagina in that state, more pressure is added to the glans, the glans becomes flat, the excitement rises at once, and ejaculation occurs. The only way to prevent this is to get used to it.
Wear a condom and try to masturbate in the masturbation hole. You’ll be able to recreate a situation pretty close to real sex, and you’ll be able to practice sex while effectively training your penis.
6. Penis Traction Tools
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In addition to what I’ve explained so far, there may be other things that first-time men are concerned about. It may be the size of his own penis. Penis size is a very big concern for men, but women are actually not so concerned about it.
For girls, the way they engage in foreplay and the way they move during sex is much more important to them for pleasure. However, for men who are new to sex, size may be easier than technique.
This is where a penis traction tool (penis extender) may be helpful. An extender is a product that stretches the penis to increase its size. It may sound very stinky, but in fact, penis extenders are one of the few penis enlargement methods that have been scientifically proven to be effective.
However, be aware that extender must be used for at least a few months to six months in order to get the benefits, and it can be dangerous if not used correctly. If you want to enlarge your penis through regular masturbation, check out the following articles.
How can I use a penis traction tool to help?
While it’s been said that technique is more important than size in sex, it’s also true that a larger penis is more likely to increase a woman’s pleasure. For this reason, it may be useful for men who are preparing for their first experience to use an extender to increase their size.
A penis extender pulls the penis by either pumping out the air inside to create a vacuum or by using water pressure. By continuing to pull the penis in a sizzling manner, you can make your penis longer.
There are various types of penis extenders, but one of the most effective is the Andropenis, which has been shown to be effective. There is a risk that poor quality penis extenders can damage your penis, but Andropenis is relatively safe and easy to use as long as you follow the instructions in the manual.
“CONCLUSIONS: Penile extenders should be regarded as a minimally invasive and effective treatment option to elongate the penile shaft”
Dr. Gontero, Urologist, University of Piamonte, Italy
However, in order to get a steady penis enlargement effect, you should wear it for at least several hours per day (Andropenis can be worn for four to nine hours per day) for about six months. It is also important to note that it is only “length” that is effective with these penile extenders, not “thickness” or “erection”.
Masturbation is important to avoid failure in sex
Men who are about to experience sex for the first time are especially concerned about premature ejaculation – whether they can keep inserting for long enough. Insertion time is an important factor in a woman’s pleasure during sex; if a man ejaculates prematurely, ejaculating in less than a minute, she won’t be fully satisfied.
This is because a woman’s pleasure is quite different from a man’s, and the pleasure is gradually increased. The ideal insertion time for a woman is roughly 7 to 10 minutes. Premature ejaculation is mainly due to the way you masturbate. If you usually masturbate with the glans uncovered and covered with the foreskin, the glans will not be able to get used to the sexual stimulation.
This is why you will ejaculate within a short period of time when you insert it into the vagina. That said, it’s difficult to practice with actual sex. So, you can use a masturbation tool like I mentioned earlier to help you masturbate properly. Get your penis used to the stimulation and improve your premature ejaculation.
Moreover, masturbation can also be a great way to practice putting on a condom, so it’s a great way to practice overall sex. You can also practice putting on a condom, which is a tricky thing that men tend to fail to do when they first experience it, with an masturbator.
If this is a stationary masturbator or sex doll, you can also train for sex by actually swinging your hips and making thrusting movements. To help men get through sex for the first time, you can use a masturbator to make a great first time memory. If you want to learn more about how to choose the right masturbator for you, check out the following articles!
In this article, we’ve introduced some goodies to help you practice and train for sex. Men who are going through their first experience have a lot of worries and concerns. Mistakes in preparation, such as not knowing how to do foreplay or not being able to put on a condom, can interfere with subsequent penetration.
Also, if you can’t insert a penis well or ejaculate soon after penetration, it’s hard because the woman’s satisfaction level will decrease. So make effective use of various sex toys to practice and train for sex. The masturbator is the king of sex training. Getting your penis used to the feel and pleasure of a woman’s vagina can extend the time of penetration without surprising you in the real world.
Love dolls are a development of this, and you can practice actually holding a woman. Cock rings are also effective in improving premature ejaculation, so use them to improve your ejaculation control skills. Glans masturbation with lotion is the most effective way to get the glans used to sexual stimulation. If you get used to the slipperiness of the lotion and the stimulation of the glans, you will be able to move more and more without reaching ejaculation quick during actual penetration.
If you fail to put on a condom, you may not be able to continue with the penetration, so it is recommended to practice before the first experience. Increasing your size with a penis extender may also help to improve your sex satisfaction. Use a variety of goodies to prepare for sex and create the best first experience memories. If you’re thinking of using a sex toy for your girlfriend, you should also continue reading the following articles