Everyone loves masturbation, and it feels so good. Many people may overdo it in order to get pleasure, and many people may be worried about the side effects. However, as long as masturbation is done “the right way,” you don’t have to worry about its negative effects on your body or mind. On the other hand, there are many different ways and techniques to masturbate. Among them, there are many “wrong masturbations” that have a negative impact on the function of the penis.
The trouble is that most of these wrong masturbations result in more intense pleasure than usual. Because of this, mistaken masturbation can become an addiction and can lead to overdoing it. This kind of masturbation, if overdone, can cause major problems in sex, such as delayed ejaculation and vaginal ejaculation disorder, so it is important to do it in moderation. This article explains the wrong way to masturbate and the negative effects of masturbation.
Masturbation is a very natural and healthy activity
All men masturbate, but that’s why you’re worried about overdoing it and of the side effects. However, masturbation is a very natural and healthy activity. You don’t have to worry about the side effects of masturbation. Scientific research and studies have not proven that masturbation is harmful. However, this is only true if you masturbate the “right way”. If you continue to masturbate in the “wrong way”, it is necessary to note that it may have an adverse effect on the sexual function mainly.
What is correct masturbation to begin with? Proper masturbation is one that provides “natural” stimulation for the penis and is not excessive or unnatural. The most natural stimulation for the penis is considered to be vaginal penetration. In fact, the pressure and friction that the penis receives in the vagina is weak, so masturbation with modest stimulation is the right thing to do. If you continue with this type of masturbation, you will have a healthy sex life. This point will be explained again at the end of this article.
Conversely, wrong masturbation is one that stimulates the penis too much or is unnatural. Masturbation that involves gripping the penis as hard as you can or rubbing it against something tends to be done unconsciously. Moreover, this type of masturbation often feels better than normal, so you’ll be tempted to do it.
It is important to note that trying to increase the pleasure of masturbation can inevitably lead you towards dangerous masturbation and cause side effects. Masturbation itself is a very healthy activity. For more information, check out the following article.
What are the side effects of wrong masturbation?
Masturbation itself does not have any side effects. However, if you continue to masturbate incorrectly, it can cause problems with sexual function and interfere with sex. The following four main side effects can be caused by the way you masturbate. Each of these can become a major problem if they get worse, so check carefully to see if you are already experiencing any symptoms.
- Vaginal ejaculation disorder
- Premature or late ejaculation
- Retrograde ejaculation
- Unable to get any pleasure
All four of the above are problems related to sexual function. Moreover, many of them have been found to be caused by masturbation. In particular, vaginal ejaculation disorder, which prevents a man from ejaculating in the vagina, is a major problem. If you masturbate too much wrongly, it will be difficult to even get pleasure, not to mention ejaculating, so let’s go over all the precautions you need to take in the future.
Vaginal ejaculation disorder
Vaginal ejaculation disorder is a condition in which a man is unable to ejaculate in the vagina. The most characteristic symptom is the inability to ejaculate when inserted into a woman’s vagina during sex, even though the ejaculation is normal for masturbation.
Vaginal ejaculation disorder is a largely unknown phenomenon worldwide, but rather more people in Japan suffer from indoor ejaculation disorder than premature ejaculation. However, as masturbation becomes more diverse, more and more people around the world are having difficulty ejaculating vaginally.
Unlike ED (erectile dysfunction), which makes it impossible to get an erection itself, in vaginal ejaculation disorder, both erection and insertion can be done without problems. The only thing that is not normal is ejaculation.
That’s why vaginal ejaculation disorder can cause you to feel distressed and pressured, and it can make you feel like you’re not good at sex. And it’s not just men who suffer. When a man is unable to ejaculate vaginally, women also become strongly distressed that their bodies may be the cause of the problem.
When a man has vaginal ejaculation disorder, it can lead to mutual worries and frustration, which can have a negative impact on the relationship itself for the couple. The main cause of vaginal ejaculation disorder is masturbation in an over-stimulated or unnatural way.
As our bodies continue to be stimulated, our bodies gradually develop a tolerance to stimulation. Therefore, if the penis is over-stimulated during regular masturbation, it develops a tolerance to powerful stimulation.
As a result, a woman’s vaginal stimulation becomes unsatisfactory and makes it difficult for her to reach orgasm. The same is also true for masturbation in unnatural ways and positions. If you continue to masturbate in this way on a regular basis, you will find it difficult to ejaculate vaginally. Moreover, there is no clear treatment for vaginal ejaculation disorder, as there are still many aspects of it that are not understood. Since vaginal ejaculation disorder is one of the most annoying sexual dysfunctions, you want to avoid it as much as possible.
Ejaculatory dysfunction (EjD) is a complex pathological condition compared to erectile dysfunction (ED). A definitive classification of EjD is not established, and treatment is often delayed.
To learn more about the causes of vaginal ejaculation disorders and how to remedy them, check out the following articles.
Premature Ejaculation/Late Ejaculation
Everyone has heard of premature ejaculation and late ejaculation at one time or another, as they are the most well-known problems of men. Both disorders cause problems with the time it takes to ejaculate, with premature ejaculation being too early and late ejaculation being too late.
The specific definition of premature ejaculation is one that takes less than a minute after insertion in the vagina, and late ejaculation is one that takes more than 30 minutes to ejaculate after insertion. Globally, the number of people with premature ejaculation is much higher than the number of people with premature ejaculation, which is about 30% of the world’s population, even though the percentage of late ejaculation is 1-4%.
This means that approximately 1 in 3 men have premature ejaculation. What’s wrong with premature ejaculation is that it makes it harder to satisfy a woman with sex. Men’s arousal builds up as soon as they start squeezing their penises, but women are slow starters. It takes longer for their arousal to build up and feel good.
One study shows that the ideal penetration time for a woman is approximately 7 to 13 minutes. Anything less than that and the sex is over before the woman is satisfied. For more information on the causes of premature ejaculation and how to remedy it, I recommend reading the following article.
But that doesn’t mean that the longer the insertion time is, the better. Men with late ejaculation can take more than 30 minutes to ejaculate, but for women this is too long. The research I mentioned earlier also suggests that insertion is longer than 13 minutes, which is longer than ideal. In fact, a woman’s vagina doesn’t stay wet forever. After a certain amount of time from the start of sex, the love juice (vaginal secretion) decreases, so the vagina becomes less and less slippery.
When this happens, the woman will begin to feel pain and will not be able to enjoy it anymore. If the time is too long, the woman may lose concentration and it may cause her pain. The vaginal ejaculation disorder I mentioned earlier is also known as “severe delayed ejaculation”.
This means that if the delayed ejaculation gets worse, it could lead to vaginal ejaculation disorder. Premature ejaculation and late ejaculation can also be caused by the way you masturbate, so you need to be careful about the way you masturbate.
For more information on the causes of late ejaculation and how to remedy it, we recommend reading the following articles.
You may not be familiar with retrograde ejaculation, but it is actually included as one of the three major ejaculation disorders: premature ejaculation, late ejaculation, and retrograde ejaculation. Retrograde ejaculation is a condition where little or no semen is ejected from the penis during ejaculation and most of it flows back into the bladder.
Normally, during ejaculation, the muscles at the connection between the bladder and the urethra prevent the semen from entering the bladder. However, if the nerves or muscles are damaged for some reason, the bladder opening does not close and the semen can enter the bladder.
Retrograde ejaculation is a rarer type of ejaculation problem. It happens when semen travels backwards into the bladder instead of through the urethra (the tube that urine passes through).
The main cause of retrograde ejaculation is prostate or bladder surgery. Other times, it can be caused by treatment of lifestyle diseases such as diabetes and high blood pressure. If you have retrograde ejaculation, you can still go from erection to ejaculation as normal.
Therefore, in most cases, retrograde ejaculation is not treated, and if the cause is a prescription medication, stopping the medication will most likely cure retrograde ejaculation as well. However, if the cause of retrograde ejaculation is nerve or muscle damage, it can be difficult to treat.
The cause of this nerve and muscle damage is often unknown, but it may actually be caused by a masturbation method. The method of masturbation is “stopping a man in his tracks”. The details will be explained later, but it is believed that the excessive pressure that is applied during a skimpy masturbation may cause damage to the bladder muscles.
The tricky part of retrograde ejaculation is that it can make it difficult to produce a child because very little semen is produced. This can be avoided if you masturbate correctly, so be careful not to masturbate on the short end of the stick.
Can’t feel the pleasure
Sometimes masturbation can cause problems with the sexual function itself. It’s what’s called “insensitivity,” which means that you can no longer get pleasure from stimulating your penis. The reason why this happens is because our bodies get used to continuous external stimulation. For example, when you move to a city where the noise is very loud, it can be unpleasant at first. But after living there for a while, it doesn’t bother you much. The next time you go to a quiet town, you may be surprised at how quiet it is.
The same is true for penis stimulation. If you masturbate too much on a regular basis, your penis will gradually get used to it. If it gets worse, it won’t get any more pleasure despite normal stimulation. Also, if you are masturbating in too extreme a way, you may end up damaging the nerves in your penis. Once the nerves are damaged, recovery is difficult, so be careful if you are clenching your penis as hard as you can, rubbing it against a hard object, or giving it stimulation that you wouldn’t normally expect.
Insensitivity will make ejaculation difficult, and in severe cases, you won’t even be able to get an erection. Delayed ejaculation can be considered the beginning of insensitivity, so be careful if your penis sensitivity has recently decreased or you have been stimulating it more and more.
If you continue to force yourself to masturbate, the symptoms are likely to progress further and lead to severe delayed ejaculation or vaginal ejaculation disorder. The truth is that vaginal stimulation is not as strong as it should be, although details will be discussed later. You need to regain your penile sensitivity by moderating your usual masturbation.
What are the dangerous masturbation practices that can cause side effects?
I’ve found that wrong masturbation can cause all sorts of problems with sexual function and ejaculation. It may seem very scary. However, there is nothing to worry about as long as you masturbate correctly, and even if you already have symptoms, it is possible to improve them by changing your masturbation methods. There are seven main types of Dangerous Masturbation that can cause Side Effects
- Excessive Masturbation
- Short-time masturbation
- Floor masturbation
- Foot pin masturbation
- Skin masturbation
- Abstinence masturbation
All of these methods are designed to over-stimulate the penis or cause it to develop undesirable habits. If you do it the other way around, if you don’t do these masturbations, it will be easier to keep your penis functioning normally. By the way, I will now show you how to do each masturbation, but this article is not intended to recommend the above masturbation. It is only for confirming that your own masturbation is not wrong.
Masturbating by gripping the penis too tightly is the wrong masturbation that so many men have done. The pressure and friction applied to the penis in this way can be very strong. However, it can be difficult to know if your masturbation method is the over-gripping type or not. As a specific guide, if you are gripping with all five fingers, or if you are masturbating with the palm of your hand, you are likely to be over-gripping, so be careful.
Over-gripping masturbation causes too much stimulation of the penis, which is likely to reduce the sensitivity of the penis. In fact, the stimulation that the penis receives in a woman’s vagina is not as strong as it should be. It’s not the pressure or friction of the vagina that brings pleasure, but the sensation of the entire penis being wrapped around and close together.
On the other hand, masturbation that grips too tightly can certainly increase the pleasure because the stimulation far exceeds that in the vagina. However, if you continue to masturbate in this way, your penis gets used to the stimulation. This is the so-called “Death Grip Syndrome”.
It refers to the desensitization of nerves in the penis due to frequently masturbating in a very specific way — with a tight grip, for example. As a result, you have a hard time climaxing without recreating that one very specific move.
Masturbating with a tight grip on the penis increases the risk of late ejaculation and vaginal ejaculation disorder. Moreover, it’s also tricky because it reduces sensitivity and makes it harder to feel good, so you may have to increase the stimulation more in order to regain your previous pleasure.
To resolve this, you need to reduce the number of fingers that grip your penis during masturbation. Ideally, you should be able to masturbate with only two fingers – your thumb and forefinger – as this will help prevent overgripping and eliminate the problem of sexual function.
Short-time masturbation can cause premature ejaculation. Short-time masturbation is a way to complete your masturbation in less time than normal. This is especially true for those who start masturbating and ejaculate within five minutes of starting from their penises. People who are busy every day, or when they want to get quick pleasure, tend to do short masturbation. However, if you continue to masturbate in this way, the risk of premature ejaculation will increase.
If you usually try to masturbate in a short period of time, your penis will get used to the rhythm. Our bodies are very sensitive to habits, and when we do the same thing over and over again, our bodies naturally develop that rhythm. This is the same with masturbation, so we get into the habit of ejaculating quickly. You can’t take your time to enjoy the pleasure of masturbation by short-time masturbation, and it’s the opposite of killing two birds with one stone if you end up with premature ejaculation.
The way to improve premature ejaculation by short-time masturbation is simple: make sure you have enough time to masturbate; you don’t have to masturbate for more than 30 minutes, but less than 5 minutes is too short. Therefore, you should continue to masturbate for at least 10 to 20 minutes after you start shagging before you ejaculate. However, if the habit of short masturbation is already ingrained in you, you may ejaculate too soon. So the trick is to try to extend the time, with moderate inflection and rhythm.
Floor masturbation is a masturbation technique in which the penis is pushed or rubbed against a hard object, such as the floor or a couch. It is important to note that even if it is not on a hard floor, it is the same thing as floor masturbation, even if you rub it against something relatively soft, such as a pillow or blanket.
Floor masturbation is no longer a completely different stimulation than sex, and if you overdo it, your penis will get used to the unnatural stimulation. As a result, it is a dangerous form of masturbation that also increases the risk of late ejaculation and vaginal ejaculation disorder, which can interfere with sex.
For floor masturbation, you will first lie face down on the floor or other surface. You don’t have to have an erection, but your body should still be slightly raised so that it doesn’t stick to the floor. Then slowly lower your body down and apply pressure to your penis.
You should get an erection because of the strong stimulation of your penis naturally. After that, continue to apply pressure and rub your hips and wiggle your hips, stimulating it more and more to achieve an orgasm. If you are an advanced floor masturbator, you will be able to ejaculate even if you don’t have an erection.
However, as mentioned above, floor masturbation is a very dangerous method of masturbation. The penis can become accustomed to too much powerful and unnatural stimulation, which can have a serious adverse effect on sexual function. Another drawback of floor masturbation is that the floor, couches, blankets, and other comparatively dirty objects are often used, so there are concerns about hygiene.
If you really want to masturbate on the floor, put a towel or a cover on the object you are going to rub on beforehand so that your penis does not come into direct contact with it. This is not a recommended method of masturbation, but it is a double-edged sword, as it gives you a sense of pleasure you can’t get anywhere else.
You need to be careful about this stop-right-befor masturbation, as it is also quite a dangerous method of masturbation. However, many people may do it somehow, since masturbation can greatly increase the pleasure of ejaculation. There is a risk of developing “retrograde ejaculation” if you repeatedly masturbate in short bursts.
As I mentioned earlier about this disorder, it is a phenomenon that causes almost no semen to be released during ejaculation. Most of the semen flows back into the bladder, which can cause infertility.
Brief masturbation is done by holding back and exerting pressure on the penis when you are about to ejaculate and suppressing the sensation of ejaculation. When you are about to ejaculate again, you resume stimulation, and if you feel like coming again, you repeat the process several times.
By doing this, your excitement will increase and the semen in your seminal vesicles will also increase, so the pleasant sensation at the time of ejaculation will be much higher than usual. However, this method of masturbation puts pressure on the muscles that prevent semen from flowing into the bladder, which can be painful. If this causes retrograde ejaculation, it can be very troublesome as it is difficult to cure completely.
To prevent retrograde ejaculation from occurring through masturbation, it is important to avoid masturbating like this. However, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you shouldn’t hold back your ejaculation. All you have to do is stop the stimulation in the right place and control your ejaculation.
Try to loosen up and control your hand when you feel like you are about to ejaculate, not just on the edge of coming, but when you feel like you are about to ejaculate. This way, you can prevent premature ejaculation and ejaculate at the right time, even during actual sex.
Leg-stretching masturbation is another well-known cause of vaginal ejaculation disorders. Leg-stretching masturbation is mainly performed in a pinned and stretched position with the legs in a back position. In this way, the muscles that control the function of the genitals, such as the pelvic floor muscles, are strengthened and the pleasure is increased than usual.
As a result, your orgasm will be closer than usual. However, this also means that you are boosting sexual stimulation, which can be tricky if your body gets used to it. If you continue to do leg-stretching masturbation, your body will get used to the sensation of leg-stretching masturbation and you will have difficulty ejaculating unless you are in that position, which is a vaginal ejaculation disorder.
You will only be able to ejaculate normally if you have sex in the cowgirl position. This is because cowgirl is the only position that allows for the same kind of leg-stretching during sex. However, women don’t always take cowboy positions, which can be a major hindrance in sex.
If you are already using leg-stretchingning masturbation repeatedly and it is making it difficult for you to ejaculate in the vagina, you need to take action as soon as possible. Agura masturbation is an effective way to improve leg-stretchingning masturbation.
The cross-legged position is in contrast to leg-stretchingning, which does not allow you to put any effort into your legs. In the beginning, you may not be able to ejaculate easily on the cross-legged leg, but if you continue to do so, you will regain your original sensitivity. Leg pin masturbation can be pleasant, but do not overdo it.
Skin masturbation is a common masturbation method for men with a pseudofollicle. The method of skin masturbation is quite simple: first, the glans is covered with the foreskin firmly up to the top. Then, you should be able to reach orgasm if you continue to work on your penis as usual. The advantage of leather masturbation is the amazing feeling of pleasure.
The feeling of rubbing the glans with the soft foreskin is a pleasant sensation that cannot be experienced by other masturbation methods. Moreover, when gaman juice (Cowper’s gland juice) comes out, it accumulates in the glans and you can enjoy the slippery feeling as if you applied lotion.
However, continued skin masturbation can cause the foreskin to stretch and cause the foreskin to progress further. While the foreskin itself is quite natural, having more excess foreskin than necessary is a problem. It also increases the risk of premature ejaculation.
People with a pseudophakic foreskin are more prone to premature ejaculation by nature because the glans is usually hidden by the foreskin and has less chance of being exposed to external stimulation. The condom can only be put on after the foreskin has been removed, so when it’s time to insert it into the vagina, it can’t withstand the stimulation and will ejaculate quickly.
Skin masturbation is very pleasant, but it is safer to refrain from it when thinking about sex. However, when you masturbate with the skin off, it can be quite painful. That’s where “lotion masturbation” is recommended. Apply the lotion to the glans to make it more lubricated, and then stimulate the glans.
In this way, friction is reduced, so you can increase the feeling of pleasure instead of pain. Moreover, since the glans will get used to the stimulation, you can kill two birds with one stone by improving premature ejaculation.
Abstinence masturbation is also a very pleasurable form of masturbation. All you have to do is to endure masturbation for a few days and then masturbate as usual. This alone doubles the pleasure of masturbation, and there are no adverse effects or disadvantages that stand out. However, the problem is the period of abstinence. The ideal period of abstinence is two to three days, but if you abstain from masturbation for a week or more, your sexual function will be greatly reduced.
It takes approximately three days for the testicles to go from empty to full of sperm. Every two to three days of abstinence is a very efficient way to get your testicles full of sperm. On the other hand, after a longer period of abstinence, the sperm in the testicles will gradually deteriorate. Of course, the old sperm are naturally absorbed and disposed of by the body, but if the abstinence period is too long, the testicles will be filled with old sperm.
Moreover, the body will also lose its ability to manufacture sperm, as the lesser-used parts of the body will become less functional. Of course, if you don’t masturbate, you will be much less likely to get an erection, so your ability to get and sustain an erection will also be reduced.
This means that abstinence masturbation needs to be on a proper schedule because prolonged abstinence from masturbation can lead to a loss of sexual capacity; if you masturbate every two or three days or so, you’ll enjoy a very stimulating masturbation experience.
Don’t overdo the wrong masturbation
We have looked at the wrong masturbation methods so far. We have introduced these methods of masturbation as if they were “absolutely not allowed”, but actually it is not that they are absolutely not allowed. It is ok to do “wrong” masturbation by time to time. However, the problem is that you get too addicted to it and do it all the time. If you masturbate differently from time to time while doing the right masturbation, you are unlikely to have any major problems.
It’s all about balance in everything. If you listen to heavy music all the time, even music in general will seem very boring. On the other hand, if you enjoy both normal music and extreme music on a regular basis, you will be able to enjoy music more deeply. If you enjoy both normal and extreme masturbation in good balance, you will be able to have a better sex life.
Try slow and sedate masturbation from time to time, like listening to classical music. Putting lotion on the glans and doing glans masturbation will make you feel good enough without having to grip your penis hard or move it super fast. It will also help improve your sexual function, and masturbating with intonation will give you even deeper pleasure. On top of that, it is recommended that you enjoy stimulation with extreme masturbation at times.
If you want to know more about the proper frequency of masturbation, read this article.
How to learn to masturbate correctly & comfortably?
We have looked at the dangers of “wrong masturbation” and the specific methods, but what exactly is “correct masturbation” in the first place? Correct masturbation is masturbation with natural stimulation, that is, masturbation that gives the penis the same kind of stimulation as it does when it is inserted into the vagina. In other words, there is a limit to the amount of stimulation that can be given to a normal hand job. Then, the masturbator is very powerful.
An masturbator is a sex toy that mimics a woman’s vagina. When you insert your penis into it, it gives you a realistic sensation as if you were inserting it into a real vagina. In other words, you can masturbate with a stimulation similar to what a penis receives in the vagina, which is natural for a penis. If you incorporate masturbation into your regular masturbation routine, you’ll get into the habit of masturbating properly. Moreover, the pleasure of masturbation is superior to that of a hand job.
All you have to do is pour the right amount of lube into the inside of the masturbator and insert your erect penis. This is all you need to do to get the right stimulation to your penis while getting great pleasure. It is also important to note that studies have proven that masturbation can improve any of the three major problems of premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation and vaginal ejaculation disorders. If you want to improve your sexual function while enjoying masturbation, you should definitely use masturbator.
However, it is very important to choose the right masturbator. You can’t choose a good masturbator by choosing one in the dark. The reason for this is that there is a big difference in the tightness and internal structure of the masturbator, and the one you choose will depend on the purpose for which you use it. You will also need to use different masturbators for different levels of sexual function.
For example, if you want to improve your premature ejaculation, you can choose a looser one at first and then a slightly tighter one, which will be very effective in improving your premature ejaculation. We’ve prepared an article on the benefits of utilizing masturbators, which we recommend you read.
In this article, we have explained the wrong way to masturbate and the negative effects of masturbation. Masturbation is an essential habit for men, but if continued in the wrong way, it can cause problems with sexual function. Vaginal ejaculation disorder, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and retrograde ejaculation are all major problems that can interfere with sex. Moreover, these can be caused by the way you masturbate, so you need to be careful not to overdo it by masturbating incorrectly.
Vaginal ejaculation disorder, which makes it difficult for a woman to ejaculate in her vagina, is most likely to be caused by over-gripping masturbation, floor masturbation, and leg-stretchingning masturbation. Use lotions and masturbators to provide proper stimulation to your penis.
If you ejaculate within a minute of insertion, you may end up with “short-time masturbation” or “skin masturbation”. This can be remedied by making sure you spend a good amount of time masturbating and getting your penis used to the masturbation.
Delayed ejaculation that takes more than 30 minutes to ejaculate can be caused by “over-gripping masturbation,” “floor masturbation,” or “leg-stretchingning masturbation” as well as vaginal ejaculation disorder. After all, getting the penis used to the proper stimulation in the masturbator is the most effective way to improve it.
Retrograde ejaculation, in which semen flows back into the bladder at the time of ejaculation, may be caused by “abstinence masturbation,” so stop masturbating just before ejaculation. With “abstinence masturbation,” be careful not to stay abstinent for too long, as it can lead to a decline in your sexual and reproductive abilities.
The wrong masturbation methods I’ve described here are not recommended, but that doesn’t mean you should never do them either. It’s just that it’s important to have a sense of balance, and if you enjoy a bit of extreme masturbation in between normal masturbation, there’s no big problem. However, in order to balance a good feeling with a healthy sex life, it is recommended to use an masturbator. Learn how to masturbate properly and enjoy a good masturbation experience. You can also read this article, which explains more about proper masturbation in detail